Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
well something tells me that 5 years down the line it is absolutely impossible to ever do anything that pleases the ex, I just dont know why I bother. Because I am a nice and polite person I texted the ex just to say i will be taking son to visit the graves of ex's father and grandma, as it is sons great grandma and grandad, I merely asked if it was okay with him if I laid a few flowers on the graves, I received a one word answer of "yep", go figure ex I give up dont even know why I asked or why I try and be nice, no more totally give up on this guy, what a waste of a good man.
whilst I was away on my weekend away a good friend of mine and mostly the ex's died suddenly, ex hasnt even had the decency to let me know, also on the night of this friends death the ex phoned a mutual friend of ours and told her the news, she says ex could hardly talk for sobbing and she couldnt understand what he was saying, she had to get her husband to phone him back to understand what he was talking about. it is strange that the ex phoned this particular friend as it was her and her husband that he snubbed at the beginning of all this mess, it is now her that he reaches for and he always makes a fuss of her when he sees her, maybe she as turned into his mother figure
Mother figure, or dire guilt over snubbing them, and trying to make up for it. Sorry to hear about the death of your friend, Mandy.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
BeingMe, whatever it is it is ex's to deal with, all I know is he is still way out west. So pleased to read the good news on your thread as well regards your help, hope it continues looking positive for you my friend, take care and big hugs xxxx
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, one will never know what goes off in the ex's head. The woman I am on about used to be our local landlady of the pub we both used to go in, she didnt agree with what ex did to myself and son but as spoken to him throughout., when the ex and wifey was getting married there was a huge blow out between wifey and this particular friend and wifey stated that as friends of mine they werent to be invited to the wedding, ex also stopped talking to this friend and her husband and both their grown up children, then about a year ago he began chatting and whenever he sees her he goes up gives her a hug and stands chatting, even the lady in question says it is strange, only a few weeks ago he went up and gave her a hug and told her how he loves her, he waits for her in the local supermarket just to have a chat, it is weird indeed. we used to go out with this lady and her husband for lunch and have had many a happy evening out with them, he may indeed be reconnecting to his past but unfortunately he is still destroying things on the way, xxxx
