Ok Ok Ok I know I am a bonehead...

I am working on being a self realized, enlightened bonehead.

I don't believe you can live your life without sting.

Unless you're JC or Buddha.

I am trying to say we CAN get to a place that is detached with love.

That it IS a choice and it takes time.

And understanding.

As we move through this, the days that sting should be fewer and fewer...

Will there always be an expectation even just a little one that spouse isn't going to boink OP on the spot you took your vows?

Hellyeah!

BUT BUT BUT

We know cause we are here that we cannot control that and when they boink OP in some other holy place then maybe, just maybe it doesn't sting as bad.

Cause we have learned...

Everyday...we learn.

Unless you are a bonehead. <:)

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am