can you guys help me? he says he wants to work it out now and i got a job. hes coming over for dinner. he posted a personal add again, but he said he would rather spend time with me. i really want this to work. how do i set boundaries now? he mentioned dating for six months. i say thats too long. he refuses counseling. i know you guys think i should give up, but i love him so much. i was thinking about telling him tonight three months and no seeing other people. what do you guys think?