1. Yes Ken tell the truth.. do NOT like or you are PART of the affair and an accomplice...
2. You Ken should be going to a family therapist on your OWN to set an example... You should NOT be waiting for yoru wife to WANT to go... YOU set the standard in your home by giong yourself... YOU LEAD and SHE follows.. for months now you've been waiting for HER to lead and you follow...YOU are the lead now... you ACT and she will respond to that... find a GOOD family therapist you AGREE with 100% BEFORE you introduce your wife to them.. NEVER take your wife blind into a FT you don't know
3. Make sure its a family therapist, NOT a shrink/psychotherapist/psychoanalyst/psychologist
