DanF,

I have a 401k from a previous company that I was going to use to halp purchase home. Come to find out the taxes that I will owe at the EOY will be 20k. That is just going to put me well into the red, on top of child support, and the regular bills on the home.

M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA