I don't feel as if my W uses the health issues as a way to rope me. She did not call/txt me once while I was out. Before our sitch, however, she would always txt me.
I'm saying she WILL do that, once she sees you detaching and going dimmer. Then again, with all of the details you just provided her, she probably won't have to.
C'mon, dude, BE MORE MYSTERIOUS!!! "Just out" is all you need to tell her!!!
