Hey everybody... its been a long time

[Jack_Three_Beans]

What I am recently trying to figure out is, "what is wrong with me."

Is there something wrong with you?

Because you don't have friends?

A friendship is a relationship and those do not just happen because you pull someone off the street and say "You're going to be my friend!" OR even better try that with a woman and tell her she's going to be your new girlfriend.

Like any realtionship it happens slowly and one day you realize you know their number by heart, and you look forward to seeing them again.

Hell one of my better friends and mentors...I thought was a closet ax murder...just based on appearances and I DID not want to sit at his table for a very uppity uppity New York social event I had to cover.

I have some of the best sotries of my life in New York City because of my friendship with Bob.

I am saying you just never know.


The down and dirty guide to meeting people.

Talk to stangers, you're old enough now to know bette than to get into a van because someone says they have a bike for you, so as an adult certain rules no longer apply, talk to strangers and stretch your insecurities and boundaries.

You see a person reading a BOOK you read or liked? Talk to them about it....WARNING...give away the ending and you might piss them off. Always a good idea to ask how far they are before discussing plot.

See a person doing something you like doing? Or are thinking of doing? Me? For instance remote controled ships that shoot bb's at each other and try to sink each other... I see a some guys doing that, I'm buying them lunch and I'm not going home until they shoo me away. (My example is a bit overboard, but more because it is soo cool)

Book store, Hobby store,park and you want a decent secret...

Lean to dance at a class. Ballroom, tango...you name it.

MORE women attend than guys, normally. Nice way to mee a lady...and one that can dance.


Going back to "what is wrong with Bradley?"

What do you really not like in others?

Deep down what is it?

Chances are you fear that most in yourself.