Was actually checking in on Mila and saw the "turmoil" so to speak...

First Mila, this was one of those things, those "snooping" sort of things Jack was talking about. You know, those better unknown things....

You will survive this as well.

SA,

Good one...

Grit,

We all have pain, but we all also experience things differently.

I have to be honest, I don't buy into your we hurt until we CHOOSE to not hurt anymore.

Guess what, I am good, you know that, but I still hurt sometimes.

I have dropped the rope, but I haven't dropped a lifetime of love and memories. And yes, there are days, when my H makes me nuts and angry still.

It doesn't last long, and doesn't mean too much, but it does happen.

Mila, had one of those days. You will too. Trust me bonehead... smile



"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox