After I got home last night W woke up shortly after.
W asked "where did you go?" and I simply responded "To hang out" W did not ask where or with who...
A little later on I explained to W how the dog had chewed the remote while I was gone and she was sleeping and after W gave her "bad dog" speech she then said "She (as in the dog) said 'that is what you get for going and hanging out'" W put emphasis on the hanging out part.
Earlier in the day W had asked if I could pick up some contact solution (we both where contacts). Later on just before she was ready to go to bed for the night she asked if I was able to pick it up bu I had forgot all about it. Unfortunately I needed it myself so I went to the store to get some.
When I got back and we were settled in bed watching the news W asked "Where did you go earlier" and I asked "When you got home from work or just a little while ago" she said from work and I told her to get my oil changed. Then W asked where I had been just now and I told her a friends house and she asked what friend so I told her.
My W then showed me the meds she received ect... then we went to bed.
I don't feel as if my W uses the health issues as a way to rope me. She did not call/txt me once while I was out. Before our sitch, however, she would always txt me.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10