You know, this is actually what I told our worthless MC in one of our joint sessions. "I feel like in order to win back her feelings for me, I have to lose my feelings for her (detach), but I am afraid if I get to that point, there may be no coming back." I was scared of where this would end up, si then I pursued her heavily for 5 months until she filed for D. I wish I would have found this site back then. All I had were touchy feely books at the time.
One more question? Is it ok for my sister to approach her as a friend then? Or is that kind of like cake eating, where she gets all the good stuff on both sides?
Thanks again to all for your insights. You truly are an amazing bunch of people and I will do my very best to heed all of your advice.
