I tried, I changed, but still am getting divorced!

[gatsby11]

Hey NM,

To go off your last post, I read something interesting in Oprah's magazine yesterday. It was an article about how people can be two things at once, a true dichotomy. That people are not "either/or" but they are usually "both/and". Meaning, our WH/Hs can be both awful and destructive AND loving and considerate. And that most people are two opposing things at once.

The article didn't get too deep, but it was an interesting message.