I do have that....plenty of time to talk with her before he does. Oh, and it is the same counselor I've been going to, btw. I called and talked extensively to the office manager yesterday and the counseling center. Told her I was happy with IC but this was going to take something different. She then told me my IC was also FT. Not only that, but she is extensively involved in these 8 hour intensive marriage in crisis cases where people have already filed for divorce and everything that they do. I didn't even know they offered that. I don't think H is ready for that anyway. Point being, my IC is well equipped to deal with the situation at hand, I believe. I wasn't sure because mostly we've just been dealing with me and my GAL, 180's, etc... Having said all of that, I am going to ask today if I can email her some of the reading materials and programs I've been doing.