Well WH came over last night and then asked to stay. So that was nice. He swaddled the baby, like he had a week and a half ago when he stayed last. And oh my gosh that was the trick! For the past few days she'd been waking after 1.5 hours and fussing and it was really hard to get sleep. But a good tight swaddle made it so that I woke her up last night after 4 hours had passed to feed! It was so great!! (I fed at 11 pm, 3 am, and 7 am. Not bad. In fact, you could say that it was just 'once' last night!)
I'd been skipping a good swaddle and was doing a half-a**ed one. So now I am back to good, tight, arms down swaddling.
Since WH got here around 9, we didn't have much time to talk about anything substantial. Just small talk, and he talked about his yoga. I'm so glad he's doing yoga now; I think it is really good for him to look inside.
So still waiting on the convo. Will happen hopefully this week. Whenever we can get free time away from the grandmas!
Speaking of grandma, MIL said something. I asked her if she had spoken to WH about all of this. She said they've had many conversations. And she said she understands 'his side' and 'my side.' I said that I didn't understand his side at all. She said that we needed to talk. Yep, I know. (What is his side again? That he had to leave because I didn't cook? EYEROLL. Of course I don't know what exactly she's talking about, so I should stop assuming the worst.)
Also, facebook guy wrote back. He said I looked beautiful and that I had been strong. Well now. But he didn't ask any questions, so I probably won't write him back. (It's so weird how news gets around-- I haven't spoken to him since high school probably and I guess he knows my story! I don't know how it got to him, though.)
So that's the latest, off to check your threads now.
But he didn't ask any questions, so I probably won't write him back. (It's so weird how news gets around-- I haven't spoken to him since high school probably and I guess he knows my story! I don't know how it got to him, though.)
