whilst I was away on my weekend away a good friend of mine and mostly the ex's died suddenly, ex hasnt even had the decency to let me know, also on the night of this friends death the ex phoned a mutual friend of ours and told her the news, she says ex could hardly talk for sobbing and she couldnt understand what he was saying, she had to get her husband to phone him back to understand what he was talking about. it is strange that the ex phoned this particular friend as it was her and her husband that he snubbed at the beginning of all this mess, it is now her that he reaches for and he always makes a fuss of her when he sees her, maybe she as turned into his mother figure