Thanks for sharing your experiences DDay. Point taken. I am done dealing with her and will focus on my kids and myself.
I agree that this will be very hard on the kids, but all I can do is love them at this point. That is partly why it is hard to be "gone" at night when they are around. That is the only time I get to see them other than week-ends.
Can I ask that since you and your W are now back together, was it worth the work and the wait? Two years is an awful long time and to hear that she continues to question your love is heart-wrenching. I know a guy at work who got back together with his X and they say the relationship is better than ever, but I know another guy that did the same and ended up getting divorced again because his wife found another man while he was working in Iraq and putting her through school.
Thanks for not giving-up on me. I am in the Chicago area, so you may actually get a chance to use that 4x6 on me sometime!!!
Polite and business like and patience are the keys from here on out.
Thanks again to all and good luck to everyone. I hope your situations work out as you would like them to.
