Just like to say TG, that your response on the top of page 5 really struck me and is very good advice for me in my sitch. Cart before the horse, is exactly what I have been doing.
The last few days have been alot better, because I have not been pressuring, not been controlling, and not have had a hidden agenda. I am as sexed crazed as the next guy, but maybe this time I have finally gotten it. Repair the friendship, relationship, make her feel comfortable, trusting and then it follows. Do I really want my wife to keep on having sex with me because she thinks she has to, or would it be any better if she actually wants to? Easy question.
