Then I get this a little after she started the R talk.



W -Why don't u ever txt me nice things ?

M -I do.

W -We met on icq chatting all the time ! But 10 yrs later we never talk

M -I just learned this text stuff. Communications is something we need, but I do not want to smother you.

W -Ya but I been after u for yrs to txt with me or talk with me online u won't u always said it was stupid

M -I am proud of you that you are going to work with the BLM. Actually I am jealous.

M -It was wrong. But I like talking to you face to face.

W -I know u do but even face to face u were ugly to me all the time

M -I took you for granted. My love became numb and I fell out of touch. This awakening has cleared my mind. I now see that hot redhead with curly hair that I first fell in love with.

W -I don't have curly hair

M -The first picture you ever sent me did.

W -U like what curly hair?

M -Yes, you look cute and sexy with it. As long as it isn't short.

W -O so I'm not cute and sexy with the way i am now?

M -Yes you are. You are always sexy to me. I always find you attractive.

M -I stair and smile at you now because I love yor smile. If you smile, I know you are happy. I want you to always smile.



That was the end. I went to bed.Should I continue this, as she says she wants me to text her as we used to before(or chat)? Or is this considered persuing an I should stop?

Sorry, I am all confused now. I am getting to the point I do not know what to do.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10