Can I ask you something? Has your W done anything like Mila's husband is doing? Has she taken her om back to a place where she grew up and honeymooned with you?
Put yourself in her shoes for a minute. I get what you're saying, but I also think Mila has done a dam* good job of stepping out of her H's way while still giving herself time and allowing herself to feel and process the pain that this is causing her.
Not to mention that her H is using the funds generated by the business they're in together to finance these little jaunts.
