If adding more people to a marriage were helpful, would we all be here? No!
ONE relationship at a time, knight. I know you're lonely and miss companionship - we all do. But don't jeopardize custody of your daughter by chasing skirts. The more people you add to the mix, the more complicated, expensive, and exhausting it becomes.
I would think going through what you're going through you'd want to remain squeaky clean in all areas. IMO dating or going out partying would not further your cause of getting custody of D. Just my 2 cents.
The emails you're getting sound like someone trying to mess with your head. Keep them to show L or whoever, but do not respond.
In the meantime if I did decide to date would that be a bad thing? I miss the company of a woman, and well I feel like if one came along some dating could be enjoyable.
Would this be counterproductive?
In the middle of a legal battle? Are you NUTS???
btw, this recent drama, whereby someone's trying to "get into your head," would NOT have been possible had you already been as dark as was just recommended to you by the most recent two posters yesterday.
Nobody has doused him with gasoline and set him on fire yet, so there could be a tiny bit more drama.
Just kidding. He needs to totally disengage. Block that number texting him, spam filter those emails, and then process what has happened, who he really is, and so on in PEACE.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
Of course he is. The whole situation is NUTS. Who wouldn't be a little NUTS? But you have to wonder... with so many people pointing him toward the exit door labeled "Good Mental Health & Emotional Healing", why does he keep resisting?
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M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
Well, i did what i needed to do. No more love shield. I have reported all of this to CPS and my L whom will get back to me on a good course of action.
I let them know the whole scoop, and I feel this is protecting my daughter.
I have a lot to say regarding WAW's behavior at this time, WAW's court visitation monitor expressed a lot of concern over her behavior while WAW was staying with her, and since then she was asked to leave the house and has moved in with a boyfriend whom is not someone I want DD1 around. WAWs Boss has advised to my sister that she slowly wants out of this and to break away from all of the issues and problems that WAW has brought into her life.
WAW, has contacted me via phone 2-3 times and via Facebook since I last reported her to you. She was being very rude and threatening myself and my family that if I go for Full Custody she will harm my daughter, my son, call and harass my father who is very ill with a heart condition. Also, she said she has a gun, and I have that email as well.
She has had two other Men around DD1 during visitation including taking DD1 to church for a christening with her new boyfriend who is a known alcoholic and Marijuana smoker whom works at a bar downtown.
Her Boss, advised that WAW's work performance has been poor and that she had been going out every night and partying and Her Boss is very unhappy with her performance and believes WAW needs serious mental help, due to the threats she has made against her son and daughter in law and by her actions around her family.
WAW and her boyfriend have sent several threatening email asking me to let DD1 go and that she will move out of state with her so I cannot see her ever again. I have saved these and will bring these to court.
Bosses son and daughter in law have agreed to testify for me in any divorce case and would be available for questions from you or a judge.
WAW's behavior has been reprehensible and she has not filed divorce. I would like these matters looked into, as I do not want a revolving door of men in and out of my daughter's life and until WAW gets a full psychiatric evaluation and REAL help i feel she is unfit to be a mother.
I had hopes that by her moving in with Boss whom was very nice to her and supportive that she would get herself turned around, but at this time she is in a downward spiral and is close to losing her job, and any semblance of stability in her life to be a mother.
I am considering going to file a warrant on her for breaking no contact yet again, and also a terroristic threatening warrant on her and her boyfriend to keep him from bothering me or being around DD1.
I am very upset that she is not being an adult at this time and is not taking a possible upcoming custody case seriously.
Sincerely,
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Wait for L's response and CPS response, Be tough Go DARK!
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Of course he is. The whole situation is NUTS. Who wouldn't be a little NUTS? But you have to wonder... with so many people pointing him toward the exit door labeled "Good Mental Health & Emotional Healing", why does he keep resisting?
Because the other door is more entertaining?
This stuff (infidelity and marital-endgame-related drama) DOES get highly addictive.
I am considering going to file a warrant on her for breaking no contact yet again, and also a terroristic threatening warrant on her and her boyfriend to keep him from bothering me or being around DD1.
