Stop being afraid of her anger. Anger never killed anyone, and if she tried to get physical, I bet you are bigger than she is, right? I think she has sensed that you were hesitant to do several things b/c you didn't want to stir her anger. Therefore, she bullies you.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
