Oh I know they can lie. But SHE didn't apparently know that you can't check the "Married/Separated" box. She went through the WHOLE profile setup thing, and then got the "Sorry you are Married" webpage. Now the email address she used to register with can't re-used for like 3 months.

I really feel like a dodged a big bullet last night. But there may be 50 more coming my way. It is really hard with her being away and having limited control of I can intercede with things like this.

We did talk on the phone last night, and the conversation was very civil and there was no tension. That is a step. Last time she was away we didn't talk once. And she said she would call me tonight. Now our marriage counselor did suggest we talk more in a civil manner to help ease tensions, but she is actually fol through with it. This is definitely a step, I hope....


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed