It has been interesting at best. My wife I believe has new respect because I followed through on the ultimatum. If her lawyer is any good he would suggest counceling after 26 years of marriage. She would look weak in front of the court with constructive desertion over her head. I told her the door is a crack open and she has the power to do what she feels is right. I told her she would need to leave the house as I bought out the equity of her portion of the home. This upset her field of dreams because she starts school in less than 6 weeks and she has a lot of running around to do. I do hope and pray that this tough love brings us together and we can move in a better direction until God calls us. I do love her and always will. Bobby o