Hi SA, thanks...I'm still awake 3:30am....I'll be a zombie tomorrow.

You have some good points....H is chasing happiness....this thing with OW is still a fantasy....the flights back and forth to see each other...3 weeks ago they took a weekend trip to the mountains that I just found out about and now off to Europe. H is neglecting business, OW doesn't have a job at all, is cashing stocks to live off of and they are taking trips and vacations.

I wonder if this is to maintain that artificial high that they need to sustain the pretense of happiness. They don't seem to care about anything or anyone, just self-gratification. How long can they keep this up before they come down to earth and start thinking about money, jobs, children.....day to day life.

OW is definitely in MLC as well, she is 48, going through menopause and on antidepressants. Her younger kid is 8 years old.

They are both running, from their old lives, responsibilities...

And the place in Europe was always his favorite place, it always had a special meaning to him, where he was happy, young, in love...just starting his life...with me

I'm starting to think that he is not capable of empathy or understanding how hurtful this is not only to me but to his daughter. Like me she also he loves to go there, this is her auntie's place....and he is taking some strange woman there and not her.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO