Hi Seanna.. sorry you had to go through that... I think anyone on this forum could have called that one a mile away...
Affairs don't end flat out like that... they fall apart slowly piece by piece as the fantasy dies out... there would have been a call sooner or later, and another and another as he tries to let go of the addiction...
He doesnt undserstand he's addicted and that what he's doing with her will NOT last long term..he will run out on her or she will run out on him... its inevitable... the success rate for affair couples is less than 1%... less than 1%
One of those two is going to make a mess of that thing they are engaged in and it will all fall apart.. it may take two years, but it will happen...
The DR book is pretty clear on this... you do NOT take someone back point blank on their say so that they "have it out of their system"... If you run out and abaondon your spouse you are IMMATURE and have a LOT of work and education to pour through before you can begin to reconcile.. He did NONE of that before you took him back...
He was bound to run out again... He's an overgrown child by dear... He's not an adult by any stretch...
