I know how much the trip has got to hurt. I'll tell you what I told Libby whose H did the same type of thing. I believe your H is chasing happiness. He's trying to recreate what he felt back then. He doesn't understand why when he has his 'soul mate' that he still isn't feeling that happiness. He's thinking I'll take her back to my happiest time and see if I can recapture how I felt back then.
He was young and had his whole life ahead of him. The passage of time and knowing he has less of it in front of him is really affecting him and he's reacting.
He doesn't understand that it's the internal things he's not dealing with that are causing his pain. Until he stops running, looks inside and figures it out, happiness will allude him.
It will be interesting to see when he return if he's even more depressed because he won't be able to recapture those feelings he had with you back then.
I wonder if someone could explain what makes them so incredibly insensitive to our feelings? Does it even occur to them how much this type of thing hurts the LBS? Do they care or even have the capacity to care? How can their disconnect to us happen so fast like someone threw a switch?
Not to mention how the ow can leave young children and just go off for two weeks. How old is she? Is she going through a MLC too, or is she just whacked? How old is her last child?
Anyway, I'm glad you're back and the reason you weren't on was because of all the great GALing you were doing. Good for you!
