I hope you are doing something fabulous down under and having an amazing time.
I'm sorry you miss H. You're bound to huh, especially at times when you feel a bit lonely/miss male company. Dont be fearful about communicating with him as the old Julia, not the DBer. My therapist called it 'living authentically', being your true self without fear that others will no longer like/love/accept you. Go for it girl.
Hugs, Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread