Thanks for the tip but I won't be suggesting it. Any helpful hints from my end would come across as controlling and telling him he doesn't know how to be a dad...
Heading to bed at 1 a.m. here in my hotel. Got some work done on projects but not enough! Need more hours in the day. Shouldn't have gone and gotten that massage. On second thought, yes I should have.
Letting Dan's apology rattle in my brain even though I shouldn't. A week and a half ago, when he texted 'sorry'. And I asked him the next day what he was sorry for, he texted back, "The sorry was for everything."
I didn't say "That's ok", because it isn't. Cheating, lying, leaving your wife, splitting your family so your kids have two homes, none of that is ok. I just feel like sorry isn't sorry without some action. So many times Nathan or Sydney would do something naughty and when Dan scolded them they would say, "Sorry..."
And Dan would say, "Sorry doesn't cut it." And he would expect them to fix the situation if possible (if they took something, give it back. If they knowcked something over, put it back right, etc.) Well guess what? Sorry doesn't cut it for grown-ups either without actions...
