TH you really have detached. I know you say I dont listen, but I have been at this like 3 months.

I guess i need to really observe the true detachers on this site. I often wonder how I can Love someone who is so cruel to me. I guess i need to focus on the pain, rudeness, evil within and not on the good times.

Thank you for your advice, and maybe one day my WAW will cry and it will not affect me in the slightest.

M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on