WOW! I am so inspired! Please keep posting! I have been faking detaching but really want to. I think maybe this time it is starting to happen (it's like trying to quit smoking....takes at least 7 times until it happens! lol!):

Quote:
Never give up hope but don't stop living either. Please please please take care of you and make sure you are happy. I know it's so dark right now you can't even imagine. I do remember those days. I remember them so well I can't believe I'm where I am now, but I promise you, you will be ok. One way or another.


I believe this!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004