), I'm thinking I need to get our finances separated. I can't stand the thought of her continuing to pile up debt (she's still buying smokes and gas and the account has been dry for two weeks) not to mention the chance she's spending it on "others" (I need that CC statement, too)
Any thoughts? Am I "pushing" the divorce or giving her a taste of how financially rough it will be?
I'd like a little feedback on this issue. From reading some "No More Mr Nice Guy' I know my reluctance is to avoid conflict. However, my resentment over her potential abuse of the "family funds" can't be helping my mindset in this, either.
However, in proper DB'ing, I'm concerned whether this act would be seen as "pushing the divorce" (bad) or "protecting the family" (good).
