yes-- she was a nurse and was with me in medical school so she knew somewhat-- but I will admit it was really hard. and I didn't do well with all of it. I thought we were both with our heads down getting through... so there was a lot that I could have done-- but in the end she wanted to run, rather than try and keep the unit together. and I can't do a damn thing about that. but what really pisses me off is that she is playing games with the boys and they are suffering because of it. she still says, 'daddy is working hard'. they know though.
so yea she knew but I don't think either one of us knew how hard it would really BE
