BM, I hope your appt went well, sending cyber boosts to you.
Your H almost sounds relieved in his email that you initiated a discussion about calling it quits. If he has always been the type to bottle things inside then most likely he has no clue how to handle your illness and he feels better to be done.
I hope you keep kicking butt on your illness and then kick up your heels in good health!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
