What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

Gatsby!!! I can't believe I missed this! Went to bed early.

I am glad you emailed your WH. Hopefully you will be able to set up a schedule. You have been so calm and in control of your emotions throughout all of this. And optimistic!

Something I have been thinking about, AGAIN, is that reconciliation for any of us does not look like the picture that I was meditating on...where our H just walks in one day, sits down and says "I need to talk to you. I've made a horrible mistake."

Not that you had the same vision. But it is BUMPY. Lots of false starts, potentially! I get this from reading/hearing of others's stories of reconciliation.

So keep the faith. Even if you TALK divorce...it is talk. I learned that much in my sitch...5 times of talking until he actually filed. So don't panic!!! And remember BD and her H have gone back and forth with the paperwork but nothing has happened!