Well I think I'm going to out the affair now to her family. Also I'm going to ask for her rings back as I obviously gave them to a different person than I thought I did. She damn well isn't going to be wearing those out on trips with the OM...or continue disgracing them while doing what she's doing. The credit card she's been using for this is hers alone...but the statements still are mailed to our house. She didn't think that one through!
I'm going to start living like she has no part in my life what so ever from here on out.
M: 29, W: 28 Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09) Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10 Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010 Separated 5/22/10 - Present Affair exposed 7/7/10 No children