I'm not saying she doesn't know it's wrong, Greek. I'm saying that sometimes, thru weak and fuzzy communication, one spouse can come away from an encouter thinking "My husband is apparently OK with a certain extent of my wrong-ness." I think FFH mishandled the Moment of Opportunity, left a loophole, and his wife is trying to drive straight thru it.
It really doesn't matter, b/c he's clearly closing any misconception now anyway, but I do think that maybe this was a classic case of a wayward thinking "Hey, he seems to be okay with all of this. He'll be fine. I can manage him."
