help with a plan

[pigskin]

It sounds like you WANT to believe there is no OM contact. Since it is not in your face and you haven't seen evidence, you are encouraged.

I've been there. Not saying your W is doing what mine did, but even when I thought the EA was cooling off, it wasn't. The way your wife treats you at home is similar to how mine was. It's almost fishy too how she asked you about your plans multiple times on the weekend, almost going a little overboard on being willing to take the kids with her. Are you sure she did what she said she did? Because my W would pull BS like that and go hang with the OM. Sorry for planting seeds of suspicion; it may be nothing. I have to remember that my W is a nominee for the WAS Hall of Fame and most wouldn't be in her league of disrespect, delusion, and deception.

When your W agreed to go to MC, did she also agree to drop all contact and have complete transparency with regard to the OM? I don't remember you saying that, so I'm guessing that was not a term of your agreement.

It's unfortunate, but with MC seemingly on hold with you guys, you are back to where you were a month or so ago.