Baby born, separated, WH moving overseas for OW

[newmama]

I think he's had a sort of nervous breakdown, a whatever. When I go to the MLC threads here, I don't recognise my WH.

interesting- to me a nervous breakdown IS a crisis! And your H will live to be about 80? at least? And he is 40 now? hmm...MID life?

But seriously, Piano, I want to know why you don't think it is an MLC! I don't think THEY will admit it if it is.

And I read the article link "Why Men Fall out of Love" and quoted a brief paragraph that referred to them fulfilling unresolved issues.

And this jumped out at me,too!! Does it make sense for your H?:

The truth is that a man who does not understand or feel comfortable with himself, was never nurtured as a child, never learned to trust and value his emotions, or never acquired socialization skills, especially conflict resolution, will almost inevitably wilt under the responsibility of a relationship or a family

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