Well I ended up just texting a simple "Thank you, that was nice" to my wife for the card and desert she left for me.

Also I'm pretty sure she is still seeing the OM. Based on some credit card bills...looks like she may have gone to see him a couple times in the last month.

This just gets better and better. Should I confront her about the bills? Do I stick to my game plan or do I need to take some sort of action about this?

M: 29, W: 28
Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09)
Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10
Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010
Separated 5/22/10 - Present
Affair exposed 7/7/10
No children