Heartbroken and needing help!

[irishblessings]

Help - Help - Help!
H calls tonight to "catch up"...
Tells me that he told his boss that he left
Boss concerned because he knows us - asked if we had counseling - H says yeah, lots.
H says he's applied for bunch of part time work. Wants to bring in more money.
Says he's trying to find a place to live for free (friend, family) etc.
He then is quiet - asks "if I can't find a place can I stay at home?"
Says he hated to ask
I was silent - he said I didn't need to answer - I told him that I couldn't answer him right now. Said I would talk to him tomorrow evening.
He said if he could avoid it he wanted to.

I feel like it would be so confusing to S (and me) - If I say yes, it would have to be unconditional right?
Help!!!