She said he is just a friend and she thought that a conversation we had a few days ago that I was ok with that. The conversation we had was I understood why she did this and that emotionally I wasn't there for her. I was ok with the past and it was time to move forward without OM.
To her it was a very confusing conversation apparently.
Well, in fairness to your wife, I too was frustrated about how fuzzy and vague your conversation the other day went, so maybe she WASN'T entirely clear on your position? You seemed to me to equivocate somewhat.
So what agreement did you come to tonite, if any? How did you leave things??