I decided a while ago that this wasn't going to be the definitive experience in my life. I am not going to let H's A make me into a bitter, suspicious shell.

And, if somehow this actually is, then it will be the moment that I started to become a far, far, far better person than I would have otherwise.

M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3