I don't see how such a traumatic event is going to cause personal growth, right now it's just personal hell.
It is hell; in RL, I describe my life as a $hit sandwhich. But how on earth can you go thru something this horrendous w/o being transformed??? It's your choice whether that transformation is a positive or a negative.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
