yes, it is possible to do all of these things...in a year. I did them. Well am not DONE (still am not perfect, darn it! lol!) but have adressed something in every one on the list. With a baby boy. (whose dad sees him a lot so I had time)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004