Still trying to find my way

[Mystik]

Newmama, that is the success story I hope for, minus the other boyfriend for me. Right now I can't see myself with anyone but H.

My former SIL (step-brother's ex-wife) told me that I would be glad I went through this. To that I say Really? I'm going to be glad that my husband, the man who swore he would love me forever, left me and took up with another woman? What the h&ll kind of world do you live in, because I can't ever see that as being a good thing to have happen. I don't see how such a traumatic event is going to cause personal growth, right now it's just personal hell.