1) do something alone outside of your house- go to a bookstore and drink coffee/tea, see a movie, go to a free concert in the park, go to MacDonald's for their free wi-fi and surf the net (or somewhere else, lol!)
2)look at meetup.com for your area and just think about joining some of the groups there. Maybe tag a couple.
3)think about some hobbies you used to enjoy when you were younger but then dropped them. Painting? Skating? You mentioned writing (they have writing contests you can enter online--the point is to give yourself a goal and a deadline! Check out writing.com!)
4)think about things you have been afraid of doing and try to face them.
5)think of things you want to improve about yourself and learn how to.
6)think of things you always wanted to learn how to do and try one of them.
7)look for classes at your local parks and rec department or community college
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
