Are there any midlife women who want daily sex?

[ssmguy]

Thanks very much for your perspective, The Wifey! You sound pretty OK to me!

I would have times when I had desire and then periods of time that it didn't cross my mind. And it was influenced by the interaction with my H. If we'd had a good day I'd be more likely to want to ML than if we'd had an argument 20 minutes before. Also, if he'd acted like I was part of the woodwork until 10 minutes before bed it just wasn't happening.

Perfectly understandable, and I wouldn't mind if my wife agreed with that at all. What I have a problem with is when we have an unhurried and wonderful candlelight dinner with wine in a fine restaurant, go home, and then she wants nothing to do with sex, and won't even take a raincheck. And even when she says the dinner was great and she has no complaints!!! Maybe you can see why I kind of have my doubts sometimes that any women are interested in sex at all! And wonder how the heck other couples manage to have sex all the time -- they must be doing something different, that's for sure!

Its been 2 years in July since we ML, partly because he has ED and hasn't been to the Doc, and a lot because of our relationship.

That's ridiculous! Any man with ED should see the doctor right away, and not just to restore his sense of masculinity. It's recently been shown that ED can be an early indicator of vascular/heart/circulatory problems.

My Doc put me on Welbutrin. As it turns out, that ramps up a woman's sex drive. No sex + high drive + living in the same house but not the same bed = frustration and time spent with BOB.

Not sure I'd recommend this, but some people might suggest switching to another anti-depressant which lowers sex drive! Usually people are switch to, not from, Wellbutrin because the reduced sex drive from other anti-depressants is hurting their relationship.