Allen's advice above is sound. Get someone else to deal with her. No contact means NO CONTACT. You or her for any reason. This is for your benefit. You can then find some peace after getting off her crazy train. This also means no indirect contact. Others telling you what is going on with her, checking her fb account, etc, is contact.
Whomever is fostering your D should be the ones reporting her questionable company when she visits D. Are these visits supervised? If not, that should be investigated (by the family court/ your attny.)
As things are going now, you are feeding her instability. Get off the train!! Make yourself a no drama zone. Most of the affair-busting on this board involves partners who are living together. You are at the no contact point in Tough Love.
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