I had the conversation with the W. She didn't argue or deny conversation with OM. I really didn't even give her a chance to explain. I just went into my script and she didn't have much to say.

She said he is just a friend and she thought that a conversation we had a few days ago that I was ok with that. The conversation we had was I understood why she did this and that emotionally I wasn't there for her. I was ok with the past and it was time to move forward without OM.

To her it was a very confusing conversation apparently.

I guess my question is this. Prior I used to see the OM phone number and it broke my heart every time I saw it. It eventually got easier to see the number because I expected it. Yesterday I saw the number and I felt nothing, I think that's when I knew.


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA