What if the truth was for some odd reason your wife lost attraction and other parts of her love for you because you had gained some weight. It sounds petty but it happens, and if you lose the weight and when you are lighter her attraction returns and gets stronger.
If it was that simple, I'd be fixing the problem right away. But in my case my wife had ever-changing and different excuses. When I had "fixed" one problem, say, by cleaning out the garage which she actually used as a reason for being upset and feeling unloving towards me, she then comes up with another excuse I hadn't heard before. Then I knew the problem wasn't just me.
As for putting on weight, I haven't. I've been about the same weight since my 20's. My wife even says I look "model good" in a suit. But nooOOOoooo sex. Yeah, figure that one out!
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Sometimes these things are like requirements, and the base level requirements where it has to be met.
In my case, whatever was good enough for her when we first met is apparently NO GOOD anymore! Her "base level requirements" went up into the stratosphere, or beyond our universe.
