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[awest1217]

Funny thing...S woke up from his nap and during dinner asked about H. He wanted H to come over to play. I asked S if he wanted to call H, he said yes, so I let him. They had a good conversation, but H used S to talk to me "tell mommy daddy says hi"

Anyway, H is coming over tonight to see S and then again on Wednesday and asked if I wanted to go on Friday and I told him I was not invited. He said he was always planning on going and thought I already knew that.

I really think MIL tries to manipulate everything, where H gets it from, so I am standing up because I am not going to be apart of that.

I don't like that H is coming over and insists on making breakfast Wednesday and do family stuff, but the thing is that I don't have a choice. If S goes to the in-laws then MIL will just play with him or his uncle. Plus S asked for H to come here...so I guess I am just stuck. He wants his daddy and right now I am going to try to let that happen.

I told H how I want a consistent arrangement and he said he understood. He was very upset when i said we aren't a family anymore, but hey that is the reality...